Thursday, May 26, 2011

Letting Go

It's a miracle how people can let go of things they fond of - be it a relationship or things they really treasure. How life can be so ironic when they actually fell in love at first sight; and tomorrow it turns sour.
What could be the catalyst?
What is the reason behind the shift of events?
Nobody actually knows.
There could be millions of reasons behind a single event. Perhaps, it just happens to be a coincidence. Perhaps, it is the nature of human being. Or perhaps, it is fate.
The illogical sense of humanity just do not fit in the picture anymore.
What the reality brings is not about the truth but the feelings. "Within a soul, what matters is how you feel for them and not how they feel for you." As much as we are denying this fact, it slowly finds it way into the 'truth' for humanity. Contradicting but to be exact, it just happens.
People always say that, "Life is about letting go." But what is there to let go, when you already let go in the first place. There is no meaning to the phrase. If it is that easy to let go, then you can see how meaningless it could be. In fact, letting go is the hardest things in life. No matter how much I hold back, tears will always be there.
Posted by at 9:33 PM

54 comments:

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  4. i would say, dont let go, but go with the flow :)

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  5. AlmostlovelydisasterJun 5, 2011 11:16 PM

    I like this blog, very realistic and true.

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  6. I don't like this. I think your inspired but this makes no sense. So what after all these posts? You need to stop this and go start to work.

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  8. Hey, I think you and me have a very similar way of looking at things, you write in a stream of consciousness, you sit down and let the words come out. If you go past my daily posts and into my archives, (which you can find at the bottom of my blog), and read my stuff I think You'll find some similarities, I am now a follower!

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  10. hey, very nice blog! (:
    this is interesting!

    keep ya going!

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  12. Yap i agree to the last part of the message.. Even when i tell myself to let go, the past will cme bck to hunt and remind me what i once had n lost..

    SeLeNa

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  13. If you refuse to let go a wall is created which blocks any new possibilities. If you just let emotion flow through you without hindrance you suffer sorrow and celebrate joy as they flow through, and then...you move on. Never forget joy or refuse it entry because of an earlier sorrow. Everything changes and everything stays the same. We are all one.

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  15. nice,its very difficult to let go but time itself has a way of easing the process.

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  16. Letting go is the door to freedom. dont give up.

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  17. I think it is human nature. It takes work to stay committed to things.

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  18. WoW! Great post.. super agree with this one.=0

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  19. "What matters is how you feel about them."

    This sounds really selfish, but necessary and true. It is hard to accept when you are younger.

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  21. Ugh its so hard to let go sometimes.. :(
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  22. LOVE your blog - how do I follow??

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  23. In this day and age people are all about getting gratification and moving on to other fertile grounds. No one wants to accountable anymore and too many people are getting involved in relationships before they even know anything about the individual. Get involved and ask questions later, it does not work and it causes a lot or heart ache and problems.

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  24. Hey! I enjoyed this so much I used as a reference on my blog. I like to give credit, where credit is deserved. I hope you take time to read mine.

    Thank you
    Julia S Gutierrez

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  25. You have expressed wonderfully!

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  27. i agree with letting go is the hardest thing in life.the person whom i am fond of,may not hav the same feel as mi.but,becos i really did love her,i dun want her to feel trouble n disturb,i hav to learn to let go.
    sometimes life is jus like that.but i do rmb her forever.she will alway b the best.

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  28. "It's the simple things in life that are the most extraordinary; only wise men are able to understand them." Paulo Coelho

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  29. hey kok hee. i really agree with you. it's so easy for your partner to say "you have to let go", but it's really hard no matter how much and how hard we tried. and it hurts a lot, to think that, that particular person easily moved on and let go. it just tell you how much you mean to that someone, and how much the person feel for you, which is very little.

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  30. Nicely put, short and sweet, and very true...

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  31. It's good to see that realism is so simple... wonder why most people don't pay attention to it...

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  32. the human mind wants to achieve goals ,some are primary and some are secondary,if the mind is told through various happenings and events that that particular goal cannot be achieved he gets depressed but then his attention shifts and so does his goal this is how people let go of things!

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  33. nicely put. i almost 'let go' 21 years ago. very difficult indeed.

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  34. You won't appreciate letting go because you're still in pain but when the time comes that the hurt is gone, you will free a sense of freedom and you will appreciate the meaning of letting go.

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  35. wow that's so deep I love your philosophy on things
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  36. I like your blog. Really nice and touching. It really takes a while for me to let go of people close to me who have gone away and the things that they left.

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  37. new to this. Was just reading your blog. and from a person who thinks just as deeply as you do. Nice work.

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  38. Nice article. You are on a whole new level of thinking.

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  39. letting go of things is not forgetting them. you will still have tears at times. these tears are normal actions of the hurt you've obtained during the situation. the smile and releif you have is when you complete that action of letting go. so let go live and breathe.

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  40. the above anonymous for December 2 is me. Sheila. I wanted to add every day it will get easier to adjust. we're all human with the ability to feel pain. I rather be hurt and shed a few tears over the situation than to have a hard core heart and be numb to everything in life. now that's what i would call NOT letting go....Sheila

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  43. soulful post dear!..Rohit nods his head in agreement..attachment is indeed painful,The world seems so full of futility.

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  44. I like your profound statements about letting go, but it also seems that emotions still equal hurt! The pain represents two sides, one, the side that says I truly loved what I had, but the other, and most important side, that says, "I have learned from this nagging pain that hampers me because of what this relationship has done. I will never experience this again....When YOU know better, you DO better!" Come check out my other philosophies at TheAnatomyofaCheater.blogspot.com Relationships are my specialty!
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  47. Dude....I feel your pain.

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  49. So, very true, there is not really any letting go, it is a matter of just moving on....

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  51. you speak the truth, which i love. We have to let go because we grow up, move on or grow out of certain people, letting go is about growing up and a part of life.

    xx

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